You Can Never Do Anything Right
You can never do anything right.
If you’re a mother, I’m sure at one time or another you’ve felt this way- a lot. You’re constantly being criticized. You’re always questioning your decisions because someone is telling you that you’re making the wrong one. You’re afraid to share your thoughts because you know you’re about to get judged by someone, somewhere. It’s inevitable.
Just know, that it’s a bunch of bullshit. How you want to raise your children is 100% your decision and I hope that if you aren’t already standing up for yourself, you start today.
If you want to bottle feed your kid, don’t explain yourself. Let me emphasize. Feed YOUR damn kid the way you want to feed YOUR damn kid. You don’t have to justify your parenting decisions to anyone.
If you want to have a beer with your friends, go have a beer with your friends. Sure, you’re going to get judged by others who have sticks up their ass and no life, but so what. At the end of the day, they are the ones loathing in their own presence because they are that unpleasant to be around.
If you want to be a stay-at-home mom to raise your children, be a freaking stay-at-home mom. If you want to work because being a stay-at-home mom isn’t for you, get a job! Regardless if your family needs the second income or not, do what you want to do. You’re not a bad mom for taking your children to daycare. You aren’t a bad mom because being at home with your children 24/7 isn’t for you.
Let me rephrase.
You aren’t a bad mom, period.
Every family is different. Why this is so hard for so many others to understand is beyond me. What may work for one, probably won’t work for the other. It’s really not a hard concept to grasp.
It’s not easy being a mom in today’s society. Screw what everyone else thinks. Stand up for yourself. Do what’s best for YOU and YOUR family.
If you’re reading this right now and you can’t relate to a single thing listed, you’re the problem.
YOU ARE THE PROBLEM!
You aren’t the award recipient for Mother of the Year. That award doesn’t exist, so stop competing.
You’re doing what is best in your eyes for your family, so do the world a favor and let others do what they think is best for theirs.
Pay more attention to your kids instead of how others are raising theirs. It’s ridiculous and I’m so over the bullshit. That’s exactly what it is, too.
What you are doing is BULLSHIT.
Encourage each other. Be there for one another. Give others assurance that they’re doing a damn good job at the most important job in the world; being a mother.
Make the world a better place. Stop having the ‘holier than thou’ attitude and stop being a bitch.
A good mother already second guesses her decisions and criticizes herself because she wants what is best for her children. She doesn’t need you doing it, too.
So if you feel that you can’t do anything right, let me be the first to tell you that you CAN and you ARE.
If you feel like you do everything right, good for you! Be proud of yourself without bringing everyone else down. Can you do that for me? Can you stop being such a bitch?
Perfect, thank you.